You don't have any control over anyone's feelings. You can't make your parents feel proud of you. You can't make anyone like you. You can't make anyone love you. You can make it easier for them, by sacrificing your time and energy, but you cannot MAKE THEM, you can only make it easier for them- and yet again, what have you gained? Nothing. You're gambling. Putting trust coins into a slot machine hoping that love comes out.