People are in one of two states in a relationship, ' Gottman went on. 'The first is what I call positive sentiment override, where positive emotion overrides irritability. It's like a buffer. Their spouse will do something bad, and they'll say, 'Oh, he's just in a crummy mood.' Or they can be in negative sentiment override, so that even a relatively neutral thing that a partner says gets perceived as negative.
People are in one of two states in a relationship," Gottman went on. "The first is what I call positive sentiment override, where positive emotion overrides irritability. It's like a buffer. Their spouse will do something bad, and they'll say, 'Oh, he's just in a crummy mood.' Or they can be in negative sentiment override, so that even a relatively neutral thing that a partner says gets perceived as negative.
People in one of two states in a relationship. The first is what I call positive sentiment override, where positive emotion overrides irritability. It's a buffer. Their spouse will do something bad, and they'll say, 'Oh, he's just in a crummy mood.'Or they can be in negative sentiment override, said that even a relatively new tool thing that a partner says get perceived as negative. In negative sentiment override state, people draw lasting conclusions about each other. If their spouse does something positive, it's a selfish person doing a positive thing. It's really hard to change their states, and those states determine whether when one party tries to repair things, the other party sees that as repair or hostile manipulation.
CAUGHT MAKING CONVERSATION TO YOUR TEETH. KITE HIGH IN TUESDAY ETHER. BEEN GONE ALL WEEK. PEOPLE LIVE FOR SUCH A LONG TIME. EIGHTY YEARS TO GET ONE RIGHT. JET WHITE LIKE ALL DAY PAPER COMES BACK BLANK. NO TIME FOR CONVERSATION, TOO MUCH TO SAY. WE THINK YOU'LL LIVE FOR SUCH A LONG TIME NOW. YOU CAN TAKE THIS AS YOU LIKE. THIS IS THE SUN BEATING DOWN YOUR DOOR. FEELS LIKE A GUN, RIGHT BETWEEN THE EYES. WARM IN YOUR SUNSHINE. WILLIAM TELL OVERRIDE. WHITE LIES AND DEDICATION. HAVE A SEAT. GLASS ACTOR SWING YOUR HAMMER. THIS ISN'T ME. I'VE BEEN SEARCHING FOR THE RIGHT KIND. ONE WHO DOESN'T AIM SO HIGH. THIS IS THE SUN, A LIFELONG SUICIDE, COLD AS A GUN IN HANDS THAT CAN'T DECIDE. WARM IN HER SUNSHINE. WILLIAM TELL OVERRIDE. WHEN I TOOK IT TO THE MAN, HE SAID, "WE'RE DOING ALL WE CAN." THEN HE SHOOK MY HAND THIS IS THE SUN, CLOSER THAN YOU KNOW. FEELS LIKE A GUN, SHINING THROUGH YOUR WINDOW. WARM IN THE SUNSHINE. WILLIAM TELL OVERRIDE.
Jets to Brazil
You must have the confidence to override people with more credentials than you whose cognition is impaired by incentive-caused bias or some similar psychological force that is obviously present. But there are also cases where you have to recognize that you have no wisdom to add - and that your best course is to trust some expert.
Has Obama ever grown even a potted plant, much less a business, a bank, a hospital or any of the numerous other institutions whose decisions he wants to control and override? But he can talk glibly about growing the economy. Arrogance is no substitute for experience. That is why the country is in the mess it is in now.
If you're creative, if you can think independently, if you can articulate passion, if you can override the fear of being wrong, then your company needs you more than it ever did. And now your company can no longer afford to pretend that isn't the case. So dust off your horn and start tooting.
The recognition of a distinct 'national identity' among members of the Body of Christ can keep before us our ties with Christians who live under different secular governments, with whom we have bonds that transcend and override our commitments to governments and groups outside the church.
Richard J. Mouw
The great lawyer who employs his talent and his learning in the highly emunerative task of enabling a very wealthy client to override or circumvent the law is doing all that in him lies to encourage the growth in the country of a spirit of dumb anger against all laws and of disbelief in their efficacy.
No mistakes, I'd promised myself that i would make no mistakes, no matter how minimal they seemed. if i held her hand, i would only want more - another insignificant touch, another move closer to her. i could feel that. a new kind of desire was growing in me, working to override my self-control. no mistakes.
There may never be a baby book that offers the conclusive answer to every question, but it's possible to extract some wisdom from the suffering of past generations of parents. Does the book you're reading contradict itself repeatedly, require you to override all your parental instincts, or send you into a panic over your own inadequacy? If so, burn it.
The only way you'll find out if you "have it in you" is to get to work and see if you do. The only way to override your "limitations, insecurities, jealousies, and ineptitude" is to produce. You have limitations. You are in some way inept. This is true of every writer, and it's especially true of writers who are twenty-six. You will feel insecure and jealous. How much power you give those feelings is entirely up to you.
To restrict or legalize abortion, to allow or forbid gay marriage, a legislator would need to write and pass a law, get it signed by the president or a governor, and perhaps override a veto. A Supreme Court justice need only persuade four other people. If he or she is not internally constrained by the authority of a text, he or she is not constrained.
Michael J. Gerson
We know there are certain chemicals that are designed to give us a rush of pleasure. But, one of the most amazing things about being human is our capacity to override that pleasure. To either say, 'I don't need that pleasure right now. I'm going to ignore the craving.' Or to find something else that we find a deeper sense of reward from.
Put simply, behavioural economics argues that human beings' decision-taking is guided by the evolutionary baggage which we bring with us to the present day. Evolution has made us rational to a point, but not perfectly so. It has given us emotions, for example, which programme us to override our rational brain and act more instinctively.